Bondage

If he asks you to tie him up, what do you do? Well, in the case of one woman whose sexual appetites were not as rich as her lovers, she choose a simple plan of action. 

Not every woman wants to be in control sexually and the gesture of tying someone up is a measure of sexual faith. It's an act of honor. "I TRUST YOU" is what is implied and in that TRUST there is supposed to be sexual excitement. However, for some, there is no need for this dramatic act. Bondage is unnecessary and often, well, looked at as pretty foolish.

But you power on.

You do it for them. Or so you keep telling yourself. You do it because they asked for it. And you engage yourself to giving them what they want.

You tie them up. And then everything looks and feels very silly. Suddenly the loss of a pair of hands becomes very apparent. You can still kiss, you can, "do some exploring" but nothing you haven't done before with his hands untied. But then you run out of ideas. And you are left with nothing but silliness.

Without fail, you will tickle him. Or worse, you will blow raspberries on his stomach. The sexuality of the moment lost in the sound of manufactured flatulence.

All of this occurs 8 times out of 10 with most couples. The other two times, well, those are more severe cases and the women know exactly what to do when they tie up their lovers and that's a posting for another time.

But this is about one special lady who found that the best thing to do with a man restrained was to not have sex with him, but to make him pretty. Take this opportunity to groom him a little bit. She put make up on him.

"I didn't know what else to do with him. He asked me to tie him up and I did it for him. It did nothing for me. But when I finally got him tied up, I didn't know what to do. And he just kept reacting like everything I was doing was incredibly sexual. He was moaning and writhing around like everything I was doing was getting him off. I didn't know what was going on. And I don't know why, but I just decided to shave his belly and then I put make up on him."

There are other ways to show trust and give power and control over to someone without tying them to a bed. If you really want to get the engines pumping let your lover blindfold you and then let them lead you down a flight of stairs without you using your hands. Terribly exciting!